How the Social Worker Can Help Owners of Pets with Cancer
When we have a pet, we are
attached, and the pet becomes a "person" and a part of the family. When our
pet becomes ill, we might experience the same feelings as we would if a beloved
member of the family is sick: sadness, crying, trouble sleeping, etc. Other
things can get stirred up in your life by your animal's illness, e.g., memories
of an earlier loss or currently someone has cancer or some other serious illness
in the family. At this time you may want to talk with someone. Along with your
veterinarian, there is a social worker who is part of the veterinary oncology
team. The social worker is available for owners to talk with about their feelings.
The following might be
some areas you might want to discuss with the social worker:
- You need information
about hospital procedures.
- You are having an emotional
reaction to your pet's illness, diagnosis, treatment, or prognosis.
- You need help with
informing other family members of the situatin with the pet, e.g. a mother
with a 4-year old child.
- You are having an immediate
emotional reaction to the death of your pet.
- You need help making
a decision about putting your pet to sleep (euthansia).
- You need help making
decisions about treating your pet.
- You want support and
help in dealing with bereavement and grief reaction over time after the
loss of your pet.
- You need to talk about
the reaction of surviving pets to their "buddy's" loss.
- You have personal problems
not related to the pet, e.g., finances, housing.
- You need information
and education about your pet's illness and treatment and "translation" of
medical terms.
- You are having trouble
communicating with clinicians, e.g., emotional upset, language barriers,
etc.
Along with individual contact,
there is a support group for people whose pets are ill or who have died. The
group meets every other week. It is people helping each other at this difficult
time. The social worker is
a "listener" and doesn't give medical information, but will help you contact
your veterinarian. If there is any way the social worker can help you, please
do not hestitate to call. Quite often you will have met the social worker
on our first visit to the clinic.